And even if they do, it doesn’t mean they’ll ever open you because OOOH SHINY THING OVER THERE.

Oh, did you think you actually had a date tonight just because the person you asked out said “maybe?

Male friends of mine who have or have had OKC profiles report that they get hardly get any messages whatsoever.

Basically, your date views you like an app that’s in beta.

Maybe you’re pretty great with a lot of promise and the potential to make someone millions, but that doesn’t mean your date wants to actually download you.

Okay, maybe when you’re together you’ll actually make eye contact and have real conversation, but there will be no phone calls or emails until months -- years! Instead, it’ll be more of a, “Hey, wanna grab a drink after work” type of thing and then you’ll Uber there separately and have to awkwardly find each other in the bar and depending on how it goes, maybe get food after a couple of drinks, and then Uber home separately, and yes he is 100% leaving you alone on the sidewalk if his Uber shows up first. ): a large majority of them are still paying for the first date.

No one's getting picked up and dropped off at their house for the “date” and there isn't an implied commitment for dinner.