I see you're too ashamed to put your name on your profile. Shortly after the Twitter abuse, Tinderholt received another threatening note in the mail.'I do love watching you Beth. See you again soon,' it read, the Star-Telegram reports the affidavit stated.

She told the victim 'watch yourself' and warned 'I will find you' if she gave evidence against her husband.

You can thank your husband for that.' Tinderholt and her husband are pictured Police investigated the incidents over several months, and were eventually able to identify that the Twitter account sent the message from an IP account belonging to Powers' wife.

She told police she did not know anything about the harassment of Tinderholt, which led to investigators arresting Powers on suspicion of harassment in February. The 35-year-old was released after posting a ,500 bail. He has since removed a Facebook page supporting his city council candidacy.

In any case, a man you might date and form a relationship with should admire and appreciate the accomplishments that make you, you. What's he's really saying is he's sure you're too cool, too beautiful and too all-around amazing to stick with a schlub like him if something better comes along. You deserve to be with a confident man has more faith in your relationship than that.

If you're approaching a new relationship with your act together, you're choosing to be with a man out of want, not out of need. Let's face it--it takes guts to approach a fine woman such as you.