Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't want to upset the apple cart.2. A bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that's scary.8. We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves.
Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed." Bad boys usually do, so they become a "project." Some women think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will never leave them. Women are subconsciously attracted to potential mates with strong genes.
So before you allow yourself to be swept into a sea of ‘s, here are a few things you should expect.
Don’t be surprised if a French man pushes for monogamy early.
Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear.
If you don't think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. We sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won't be able to take control and get the job done.
A nice guy is treating you in a way you're not familiar with and that feels uncomfortable.9. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case. I'm sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn't look so good.
It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. Also, if they're busy fixing someone else, they don't have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives. Bad boys send out a subconscious message that they those powerful genes.
Here a few reasons (some legitimate and some just stereotypes that won't die) why girls like bad boys and dismiss the nice guys: 1. They are busy being nice instead of being real, and women instinctively don't trust that. Nice guys don't set boundaries or make any real demands. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there.