conducted a survey to give you a hand—figuratively, of course—to find out what’s standing between you and your lady’s orgasm.

Take a look at these surprising stats and study up.

I guess my advice is: Feel free to say no to date ideas.

Now that we know she’s only satisfied about half the time, lets get into the reasons things are falling flat.Like, they like to show up exactly 11 minutes late, so they don’t look too eager, but they don’t look rude or like they tried to show up late. There are all these weird rules in place and you can get into your own head. Either your date will like you or they won’t, and if they don’t, who fucking cares?” —"More than once I found out way too late that my date didn’t like the restaurant we were at, or the concert I got tickets to, or what have you.And they're actually pretty solid."I’ve gone out with a few people who were glued to their phone during the date to the point where I felt awkward carrying on a conversation.I don’t care if you’re checking messages or whatever, but that just made me feel like they had zero interest in me.” —"I’m just as nervous as you, if not more so.